Diary

Setting a Standard – Dexterity

Skillful dominant fantasy fulfillment requires of the Mistress both mental and physical dexterity.  It is a “hands on” process requiring nimble (and lovely) fingers to buckle, zip, lace, and knot.  Good hand-eye coordination is necessary to hit the mark with whip, crop, cane or paddle.   A gracious Dominatrix shows remarkable scope in Her emotions, Her ability to understand, sympathize, console, and often counsel as well as the ease with She can bowl you over by voicing a single word.  She does not whip Her way into a corner.  She always has options and alternatives, both psychological and tactile to achieve Her goal and to fulfill Her passion for power!

Setting a Standard – Intuition

Intuition – One of the foremost attributes of a competent Dominatrix is Her innate ability to predict and perceive your deepest desires.  Submissives often are “hard” put to express openly exactly what they want, need or feel.  A good Mistress must in essence be part mind reader.  She must take Her cues from whatever information She extracts during preliminary correspondence and communication with Her potential plaything, in order to forecast your specific interests (as they pertain to Her interests), anticipate your limits and bring to the surface your hidden emotions.  She may not possess sixth sense or a crystal ball.  Her intuition is most certainly a gift from the Goddess above.  It is also an acquired skill, honed from practice and experience, to make your session with Her so incredibly rewarding and sexually fulfilling.  I have been often told by many of my subjects that they feel more comfortable expressing themselves; who they are, how they feel, and what they crave sexually, with Me than they ever have with their closest friend or their own wife.

Setting a Standard

 

 

Setting a Standard

Contrary to popular opinion there is no established stereotype for a Dominatrix, except perhaps Her preference for a black wardrobe.  She can be tall or short, She can be slim or… not so slim.  Her skin can be dark or light.  Her age can vary.  She can be Catholic, Jew, Protestant, Agnostic, Pagan, Islamic, or Hindu.  She may even worship “The Goddess.”  She can prefer men, women, or both to satiate Her sexual appetite which may be either finicky or ravenous.  Dominant Women comprise a rainbow of personalities, anatomies, interests, and standards.  As far as I am concerned, there are definite positive physical and psychological traits associated with being an accomplished Dominatrix.  Over the next few weeks or so My messages will be dealing with some of what I feel these are.  For example, intellect, intuition, dexterity, generosity, endurance, patience, will and compassion.  For today I would like to express some of my thoughts in regards to the intellectual aspects of a beautiful Seductress such as Myself.

Handcuffs, a cat o’ nine tails and high, kinky boots are all part of the B&D gear a Mistress keeps at hand.  But the most important piece of equipment She can possess is Her own intellect.  A good memory is required to remember the subtle idiosyncrasies of past sessions.  A creative imagination is par for the course in keeping repeat fantasy encounters fresh and exciting. An accumulation of general knowledge is favorable so that She may converse intelligently with those obviously educated, upscale submissives who seek Her out.  Intellect is the core of a Domina’s confidence, self-reliance and overall appeal.  She need not be an Einstein clone, certainly, but a high IQ will stand her in better stead than high heels ever could.

The Path of Most Desirable Resistance

Resistance and desire are close friends.   Any little boy who’s saved his allowance, sacrificing other pleasures, to obtain something he desires more, can understand this bond.  James bond.   Since i am a “slave-in-training”, Mistress has commanded me to write.   i am honored that She might put my words alongside the guiding words of my fellow pet-mates, who followed similar orders.   Perhaps some will even recognize the source of my humor! Read more…

Litany for Altar Worship

For those of us who have constructed Altars at which to worship our Goddess, I have written a litany that can be memorized and recited as part of Her worship. Her Highness has read it and approves and it will be added to Her site officially as soon as She decides where it fits in.

Here goes:

Marquesa is my Owner.

Marquesa is my Mistress.

Marquesa is my Goddess.

I obey my Owner Marquesa.

I love my Mistress Marquesa.

I worship my Goddess Marquesa.

In obedience to my Owner Marquesa, I surrender my body.

In love of my Mistress Marquesa, I surrender my heart.

In worship of my Goddess Marquesa, I surrender my very being.

My body shall forever obey my Owner Marquesa.

My heart shall forever love my Mistress Marquesa.

My being shall forever worship my Goddess Marquesa.

 

Laforge

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