LIKE TOMATOES, LIKE HYPNODOMMES

Hello, A/all:

Starting WAY back in the Roaring 1920s, “tomato” was one of the American slang words for a hot looking woman.

Oh yes, it’s true.  I wouldn’t pull your leg about that.
NOTE: HOWEVER, IF you BEG PROPERLY AND I SENSE you ARE UP FOR IT, THEN PULLING your legs may be the beginning of a beautiful b/d relationship between us.  😉

A sexy lady being called a tomato is only the first of this fascinating fruit’s connections to HypnoDommes and so many of the subs who adore Us or fear Us or all possibilities in between.

LIKE TOMATOES, LIKE HYPNODOMMES

+T  Although they were first cultivated in Mesoamerica, tomatoes are grown and enjoyed in many parts of the world.

+H  Although relatively few people have truly enjoyed the passionate pleasures ready to be unleashed by succumbing,

surrendering, and submitting to the hedonistic HypnoDomme(s) who resonate with them, I am firmly convinced

that multitudes would eagerly do so if they knew what hypnoerotica is really about!

+T  Though many people assume it is a vegetable, a tomato is really a fruit.

+H  Actually falling under a Hypnodomme’s sagacious and sensuous sway is frequently very different from what many

who have never done so presume it will be like.  And rarely, if ever, is any HypnoDomme exactly and only what She is assumed to be like.

+T  For centuries, tomatoes have been cultivated for food or grown as ornamental plants or both.  And nowadays,

tomatoes come in a variety of sizes, colors, shapes, and flavors.

+H  There are a wide variety of reasons for someone to be attracted to erotic hypnosis, for a specific hypnophile to be drawn to a particular HypnoDomme, and for a HypnoMistress to find a particular hypnosubbie appealing.

+T  Though they are nutritious, even as recently as the early 1800s many people believed tomatoes were deadly.

+H  As all incarnations of the inraptured website reveal, subs can benefit in many ways from exploring sensual hypnotism and from their interactions/relationships with those who show themselves to be worthy of the title HypnoDomme. 

Nevertheless, there are all too many people who misbelieve that what all femdom hypnotists want to do is vampiricly leech all of anything and everything worthwhile out of each and every hypno-phile they can latch onto.
Note:  IMO ALLURING, AROUSING, CULTIVATING, MOTIVATING, ETC A HYPNO-pet IS MUCH MORE EXCITING AND ENJOYABLE THAN

BLEEDING someone dry as a bleached bone scorched by the desert sun.

+T  Because they contain a couple of mild toxins, unless a person is allergic to them, someone would have to eat an extraordinary amount of tomatoes before they could become dangerous to them.

+H  If someone excessively overindulges in their hypno-fantasies, it is possible for their hypno-fetish to become a potential problem or actual impediment.

FEMDOM FASCINATION VERSUS VANILLA LIFE

As a lifestyle and pro-Domme, I have had My share of people who have told Me something like this (and yes in fact just recently have had someone email Me something exactly like this.)

“i HAVE NEVER EXPERIENCED ANYTHING WITH ANYONE THAT’S AS INTENSE AND ENJOYABLE AS BEING MESMERIZED BY YOU IS.  YOU

HYPNOTIZING me IS SO POWERFUL.  i DON’T KNOW HOW TO ENJOY THE PASSIONS AND PLEASURES YOU AND i HAVE TOGETHER AND

KEEP my LIFE OUTSIDE OF FEMDOM HYPNOTISM IN TACT.  BECAUSE my REGULAR LIFE IS SO IMPORTANT, i JUST CAN’T BE

MESMERIZED BY YOU ANY MORE, AT ALL, EVER AGAIN. … “

And those who cannot or do not verbally express to Me what’s written above, find all sorts of ways to let their actions speak for them. 

Some all of a suddenly disappear without a trace.   Others do something they already know, or they hope, I will detest so I will cut them off and send them packing.  There are those who start pulling back until they gradually fade away altogether. Some will pop up for a while, go away for a time, return to the fold, and keep going through this cycle over and over again. 

There’s a song that says there must be “FIFTY WAYS TO LEAVE YOUR LOVER”.  Well, I think there are a lot more ways than that for a hypno-fan to overtly or passively reveal their time with a specific HypnoDomme has run out.

FINDING BALANCE IS THE K IN KINKY

When enough energy is applied to, or removed from, matter, it can be transformed from one of its states to another. 

And as many Dommes and subs know wonderfully and often wantonly and wickedly well, hypnotic interactions

and/or relationships entrancing energies can exquisitely exercise a wide spectrum of ensorcelling influences upon

any or all partners in the interaction/relationship. 

When energy is wisely directed, it can accomplish all sorts of desirable results.  (The device enabling You/you to read My words functions thanks to controlled energy.) 

However, uncontrolled energy may be very destructive.  Windstorms, earthquakes, and wildfires are a few examples of what havoc unmanaged energy can unleash.

Contrary to an oft-quoted proverb, it is possible to have “TOO MUCH OF A GOOD THING”. 

For example, if someone overindulges in the most nutritious food, the finest water on earth, or the best exercise program for them, then

some undesirable consequences can arise.  Hypnoeroticism is no different.  If somebody becomes overly attached to sensual hypnotic pleasures, that this occurs does not mean there’s something inherently dangerous about Hypnoeroticism.

As it is with energy, so it is with Femdom.  When even the most potent power is properly harnessed, benefits will be enjoyed.  And as long as the right balance is maintained, those benefits can continue for years.

LIKE JEDI, LIKE DOMMES/subbies

As anyone familiar with “Star Wars” knows, for a Jedi to correctly use the Force, balance must be achieved and continued.  And when balance is lost, complications, difficulties, or even disasters arise.

So HOW can sensuous mesmerism, B/D AND the non-sensualities realms become and stay balanced? 

IMO-
START NEW AND/OR DEVELOP EXISTING NON-SENSUALITY-BASED INTERACTIONS, RELATIONSHIPS, HOBBIES.  The advice “Don’t put

all your eggs in one basket” is sound in many walks of life.  And Femdom hypnosis is one of them.  Having Femdom

hypnotism as a primary interest can be an opening to exploring, embracing, enjoying, and enhancing multitudes of

eye-opening experiences.  Having Femdom Hypnosis as the sole interest can close such an intensely focused person off from many opportunities to delve into and relish all sorts of people and things that might otherwise be

enjoyed.

IT MAY BE NO ONE’S FAULT.  Like many living things, Femdom interactions/relationships come into being and exist for some while.  And like a large number of those living organisms, a number of Femdom connections at some point cease to exist.  When the end of such a partnering arrives, it is possible that neither the Domme nor the submissive has

done anything wrong.  In certain circumstances and for whatever reason(s), the right time has come for one or more of the people involved to simply move on.  And hopefully all who were part of what once was will move upward and outward to where T/they want and need to be.

CONCLUSION.  Juggling, tightrope walking, and balancing Femdom with vanilla life are not easy.  All of them require achieving balance and exercising the right amount of control.  When balance and control are there, what transpires is truly magnificent.

And now for the question which I hope will stimulate some arousing replies:

What is something that You/you feel has helped YOU/you and/or others balance Fem-dom erotic hypnotism (and/or B/D) with the rest of life?