THE BAD BREAK UP STRIKES BACK AGAIN
Greetings:

In a classic “Seinfeld” episode –  Elaine Benes is newly dating Alan Mercer–a man whose dating relationships all end very badly for him.

Below is an excerpt from this show about Alan’s bad break ups:
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ELAINE: (Leans in close) Between you and me, what happened there with the stabbing?

ALAN: Just.. one of those things, you know.

ELAINE: What? Was she just so crazy in love with you that she just couldn’t take it anymore? Or..?

ALAN: I don’t know. Could be.

(A woman, Carol, passes. She stops infront of Elaine and Alan’s table)

CAROL: Alan?!

ALAN: Carol?

(Carol grabs his hot coffee, and throws it in his face, then storms off. Alan screams from the pain)

ELAINE: (Gets up, pointing after Carol) Was that the one?! Was that the one who stabbed you?!

ALAN: (Between screams) No, that was a different girl.

(Elaine looks confused. Scene ends)

[Setting: Coffee shop]

JERRY: There was another crazed ex-girlfriend?

ELAINE: Right, so, I called my friend, you know – the one who set us up – I found out, he’s a bad-breaker-upper.

JERRY: Mmm.. Bad how?

ELAINE: (Fast) Well, you know when you break up, how you say things you don’t mean? Well, he says the mean things you don’t mean, but he means them.

JERRY: (Nods) I follow. So what are you gonna do?

ELAINE: Dump him. I can’t be with someone who doesn’t break up nicely. I mean, to me, that’s one of the most important parts of a relationship.

JERRY: (Agreeing) What’s more important?

(Elaine shrugs, then Jerry shrugs, then Elaine, then they both get into sort of a shrug-off)

(Scene ends)

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It’s been widely believed that roughly 50% of all marriages will end because of divorce.  And most romantic relationships don’t get to the marriage stage.  And as the Seinfeld episode excerpt above sharply points out, all too many of the ways some individuals end at least one of their once loving partnerships take the word “TERMINATE” to an unhealthy level and a violent outcome.

So, here’s what I’m looking for some fine feedback on:
???  If  your Mistress disappears because Her life is busy enough or full enough without you,  Or if She stops liking you or having use for you.
WHAT THEN?

???  If you have convinced yourself that She apparently saved your life because you were in such despair… when the job of being your savior, or anyone else’s, is really up to somebody/something  Bigger than you and I, then what do you do if or when your time with Her comes to an end?

???  How can someone swooning in their place in a totally intense BDSM, D&S, hedonistically hypnotic, etc relationship get the necessary reality check when the fantasy feels sooooooo very real?

???  The reality is that pretty much everyone leaves eventually.  And even when involvement with that Entrancing Domme enthralls you like nothing else can, each P/partner will always have to deal with their own stuff.

What are some effective ways of handling the truth that no matter what….. you’re always still stuck with you?

???  Is there a best way to end hypnoerotic and other potently sensual relationships?  If so, what do You/you believe it is?

• Posted by Goddess Marquesa April 7, 2013

  THIS MIDDLE SCHOOL PRINCIPAL SHOULD OBEY HYPNODOMMES

  Hello, E/everyone:
  I had considered for My blog….discussing the dangers of penis-munching cannibal zombie hookers prowling around out there….Hmmmm….

  Click this http://m.ibtimes.co.uk/cannibal-zombie-sex-448957.html link for more gruesome details.  : )

  But instead (I’ve come to My senses or lost them again)  : ) ….. I’ve decided to mention a particular middle school principal who I think could definitely learn some priceless lessons from the values of the inraptured community.

  Ipswich Middle School’s Principal David Fabrizio unilaterally decided to cancel the school’s honors night this year.  To explain this change, he wrote to parents that,

  “The Honors Night, which can be a great sense of pride for the recipients’ families, can also be devastating to a child who has worked extremely hard in a difficult class but who, despite growth, has not been able to maintain a high grade point average,”

  Click this http://www.myfoxboston.com/story/21724149/2013/03/19/principal-cancels-honors-night-in-ipswich for more on this.
  

  I  feel that:
  +  Anything that’s worth doing should always be done as well as it can be.

  +  Excellence in anything worthwhile should be praised and rewarded.

  +  Excellence is a goal worth striving for with all one’s might. And achieving yoru personal best and acknowledging it may be your only reward at times.

  The Dominants I respect do Their best to always be the best in everything they do.  And Each of Us wants to influence, control, dominate, and inspire the best fans, followers, subbies, servants, slaves, and so on that We can find, interact with, and connect to.  I know that when someone in My thrall evolves, excels, etc–it is a real turn-on for Me.
  

  And I also strongly believe that Dominants aren’t the only folks in the D&S realms for whom seeking exquisite partners is a worthy goal. 
  

  IMO, each non-dominant is entitled to seek out the best Dominant(s) for them.  Naturally, how excellence or what is deemed the best is determined is something each individual figures out for themselves. 
  

  And to the subs I say, “EVEN IF A DOMINANT IS SUPERIOR TO you, THAT DOESN’T PROVE THEY WILL BE SUPERB FOR you”.

  Here is this blog post’s multi-part question:
  ???  Name Someone/someone whose excellence You/you decided to praise.  How did this individual express their excellence?  How did this person’s being outstanding or doing something extraordinary influence Y/you?
  NOTE:  The person being lauded does not have to be part of the Femdom Hypnosis, D&S, BDSM, etc reality.

  All feedback is welcome even if you happen to agree with fabrizio…   But then I’m not asking you if you agree with him or Me, now am I.  🙂

   

• Posted by Goddess Marquesa January 8, 2013
• GREAT NEWS AND CONGRATULATIONS

  Hello:

  GREAT NEWS!  My “THESE ARE A FEW OF MY FAVORITE THINGS — JEWELRY” contest was a smashing success.  All the first-class entries I received truly AROUSED! Me.

  In fact, I’m so turned on by how wonderful all of you were that

  I’ve decided there will definitely be more contests, et ergo more prizes in the future

  CONGRATULATIONS!

  I think everybody should tip your caps to the winner of My first contest of this kind.

  Hurray to icetiger.  your winning words especially enchanted Me.

  Here’s what icetiger said that transfixed Me:

  **********

  Dear Goddess Marquesa,

  Is it really intuitiveness or just a pure connection that occurred because one time in my life I picked up the phone and called Your number listed on the website. You were getting ready to go out waiting for a friend whom is always a little tardy at arriving, to pass the time we had a wonderful conversation, not truly about hypnosis but about music, life and society.

  Ever since that conversation each and every day that I open Inraptured and
  see either Your profile pic or that of Lady Krystal Mesmer I feel a
  certain wonder on just how beautiful You are from the inside out.

  As much as I want the trance the hypnotic connection, the pure beauty of
  having conversed with such a Lady/Goddess will always remain as a
  memorable and enlightening experience,…..

  thus when reading Your contest it
  just automatically flowed the thought of the bracelet, the fact that the
  Pandora bracelets can have beads or charms added to them and the fact that
  You have written often of Your adventures with different submissives from
  around the globe it all just seemed to be the correct answer.

  Not wanting to change the elements of the contest but to be honest it
  would be more of a thrill for me to have You choose a recording, of course
  that is only when You have the time.

  Seduction, sensuality and superior intelligence are tantalizing, torments,
  of testicular tease.

  Thank You for such a beautiful message, blessed be, and everlasting
  smiles.

  Icetiger

  **********

  *  icetiger, I hope you enjoy your prize. 

  And when you’re ready for Me to telephonically tantalize thee, just remember that I adore well-bred cats who purr under My hands.  😉

  And when a fine icetiger growls at My dazzling, decadent directions it’s Xciting!
  

  Wonderizing Goddess Mistress Marquesa

• Posted by Goddess Marquesa January 19, 2013
  FEMDOM HYPNOSIS FACTOID

  NUMBERS ARE REVEALINGHi there, My mesmerism-massaged enthusiast:

  Numbers play a big part in many areas of our lives. The weather, financial issues, someone’s healthiness, and many other things are revealed to us and represented by specific numbers.

  To Me, some of the most appealing things about the math and science-laced crime investigation drama show “Numb3rs”

  are the interactions between the FBI agents and other law enforcement personnel, with the CalSci mathematics professors and scientists.

  As the show progressed, individuals within each group learned to appreciate and rely upon the knowledge pools, unique insights,

  and finely honed skills of persons in the other group.One of the most intriguing examples of this is the romance between physicist Larry Fleinhardt and FBI profiler Megan Reeves.

  One of the first things which drew these lovers together was their mutual interest in antique cars.

  As their relationship blossomed, each partner positively influenced the other in sometimes unexpected ways.

  Megan’s and Larry’s amorous attraction reveals a couple of Femdom Hypnosis Factoids:+ Starting with some common interest(s), two very different people can successfully form a very profound interpersonal relationship.

  + As a relationship blooms, each partner can powerfully and positively influence their companion in all sorts of sometimes surprising ways.

  Here are a couple of questions I hope will elicit lots of eye-opening and pleasure-filled replies:

  #1. Starting with a shared fascination with hypnotism, have you ever had a mnutually satisfying and stimulating relationship with someone who is very different from most of the people you usually associate with?

  #2. In which ways that surprised you has one or more of your hypnosis-spawned interactions or relationships positively influenced you powerfully?

        Tell Me and maybe I’ll tell you.  ;)Goddess Marquesa

• Posted by Goddess Marquesa January 21, 2013

   

  This past weekend I was going over some old photo albums (remember those) and organizing as well as throwing away photo’s that I no longer felt a need to save or savor.

  I came across some pictures that reminded Me of a trip I had taken some time back  which I would like to share with you…..

  In the fall of 2006 I felt the desire for a relaxing trip away from the cares of satisfying the needs of My extensive stable of docile, domesticated ever (?) obedient, submissive slaves. 😉

  It all takes time and energy on My part – often leading to a point of saturation where I need to get away from all those rigidly hard, active ever-so-ready cocks!  🙂

  Just imagine for a moment a nightmare I might get when the flu bug bites and I suffer from fever at night –

  a thousand cocks being jerked off by a thousand bodyless hands, approaching, ever advancing relentlessly, all demanding in their pitiful need (yes even their supposed  “right”) to serve and the urgency of their need to receive a command they must obey!  Ha!

  It was in the wake of such an experience that I gave My then live in slave alvin the great privilege of purchasing a short 7 day cruise in the Caribbean aboard a luxury ship.  alvin’s reward was that he could accompany Me on this trip.

  Of course he purchased the most expensive Deluxe Outside Suite on an upper deck for Me.

  he was lucky as it turned out to arrange for an inside lowest deck stateroom sharing with an odd little man who seemed to have potential as slave for Mistress (if not the financial aptitude.)

  I was not much in the mood to go out on deck to sun Myself where I would have to expand energy fending away all the  lust-prone males I would inevitably attract.

  I did not relish having to be mean to these Love Boat Romeo’s – and certainly wasn’t in the mood to bolster their egos either.

  So instead I spent a considerable amount of time in My suite looking out at the Sea, reading and also in the spa relaxing and beautifying.

  Still somewhat lonely and feeling a need of a foil upon which to vent My frustrations and My naturally feisty nature, I allowed slave alvin to spend time with Me in My SWEET! suite.

  Of course more then not he was in bondage serving as target practice for My whips, paddles and riding crops – or just listening to My complaints about –  “his stupidity, his fawning submissiveness, his male insolence, his constant inane jabbering about My loveliness and My superiority to all others”, etc. etc.

  I berated alvin with such total unquestioning authority I could see he was actually quite thrilled and aroused with a super hard on!!

  The nerve!  lol

  If you all would like to know more about My cruise adventure just leave a comment.

  I thought I might regret taking slave alvin along with Me…but to tell the truth..he provided Me with much entertainment and I returned home feeling fully refreshed and more!!