GENEROSITY is a Real Turn-on

shoes_sm-01Yes, My thrall. I’m going to let you in on a little secret–

I’m not gonna lie to you.

Yes, I really enjoy being a professional Dominatrix–hypnotic and hedonistic in many other equally fascinating and thrilling ways.

And yes, it is true. I expect each individual who’s fortunate enough to see Me in person or speak with Me over the phone or Skype to willingly express their appreciation for My valuable time and intensely intimate attentions in tangible ways. ProDommes have to earn Their daily bread and pay Their bills just like you do.

SURPRISE! for some folks out there.

Based on what I’ve just said, you might doubt generosity would be one of a professional Domme’s many fine attributes.

But any Mistress *who’s truly worthy of this title and the authority and powers that come with it* is generous, nearly to a fault.

She is generous with Her time. During a training session, She may observe an exacting time schedule. But a conscientious and caring Domina will spend periods *ALONE* with you before and after Your actual session to chat, to reassure, to answer questions, or simply to wind down.

She is also generous with Her knowledge. By imparting Her experience, it should help you to understand, accept, and embrace your fantasies. This includes the one(s) you knew about and perhaps some others you never before believed you were in to.

Parenthetically, this is one of the most remarkable things about a Dominant-submissive relationship that’s genuinely beneficial to both partners. Such intense and honest interactions often encourage all involved to evolve and grow in sometimes quite unexpected ways.

A Mistress should be generous with the equipment and costuming She has. This means She should be willing and able to incorporate special devices or exotic apparel into your session if the circumstances call for it and you both are in to whatever it may be.

There are certainly greedy women hungrily lurking out there who pose as Dominas only for the profit incentive. They may have looks, fetish clothes, and a lust for cash. But that’s all they’re capable of bringing to what should be the mutually pleasurable, sane, safe, and consensual table of sensuous delicacies.

On the other Healthy! Helpful! Hypno-dominating hand, a True Goddess [whether or not She is a professional Dominant or Fem-Dom Hypnotist] takes financial considerations in stride. She respects you and appreciates the things you give Her.

She also concentrates on the more important and positive aspects of a Dominant-&-submissive rendezvous. Her personal generosity plays a very important part in establishing a relationship that is special for Her and you.

Now, My pet, honestly answer this question. When I first mentioned GENEROSITY, did you assume I was talking about yours?  🙂

“OFTEN WE MUST! GENUINELY GIVE WHAT WE WANT TO GET, BEFORE WE’LL GET WHAT WE WANT TO BE GIVEN.”

Each time you read this blurb I command you to repeat the above truth at least seven times. And substitute the word “I” for the word “we”.