Skillful dominant fantasy fulfillment requires of the Mistress both mental and physical dexterity.  It is a “hands on” process requiring nimble (and lovely) fingers to buckle, zip, lace, and knot.  Good hand-eye coordination is necessary to hit the mark with whip, crop, cane or paddle.   A gracious Dominatrix shows remarkable scope in Her emotions, Her ability to understand, sympathize, console, and often counsel as well as the ease with She can bowl you over by voicing a single word.  She does not whip Her way into a corner.  She always has options and alternatives, both psychological and tactile to achieve Her goal and to fulfill Her passion for power!